tolak-tertolak-ditolak = 'talak'

okay just now at school me learn agama, bout the talak thingy..
ustazah told us bout all the talak in islam, the condition when a guy can talak his wife and when he cannot..
i'm not gonna explain about it or what..
just sampai sekarang this thing been wondering around my mind..

TALAK - what do people now bout talak??

like all the guys that think they're hot,cool and so 'jantan' when they talak people..actually they're the stupidess and freaking S*** guys in the world!!..
saying that u love them and wanna be soulmate for the rest of ur life..
then u dumped them just like that..
GO TO H*** la weyh!!
oppss ter-over pulak..okay back to my main point here..
i know in some sort of situation where there's no other way to settle ur marriege u can take divorce as the solution..
but try to think of it??
we should try our best to find a way to solve things up..
not by divorce la i mean..but still..
ustazah said that there's different talak in islam..

first- the talak satu and dua; where we can still rujuk with our pasangan..
this kindda of talak are sort of famous around couple yang kahwin awal(young)..
dah let go then nak balik..X TAU MALU KE??
in this talak also..if the male wanna get back wif his ex-wife..
he had to tunggu sampai his ex kahwin with other guy then divorce then they can get married back and live happily ever after again..
still..the guy was totally dumbass if he do that..

second- the talak tiga; where the couple cannot never ever ever rujuk balik..
this one is tough!!
why?? cause this is what a guy usually 'play' to his mate..
guy A:"owh sayang, haha i nak ceraikan u with talak tigalah..okey x??"
girl A:"like WHAT THE FISH CAKE??"
then even he doesnt realise..the talak still dah jatuh to his wife..
they cant get back together no matter what..except for lari to bali or thailand together..haha :P

wait!! why am i talking bout this anyway??
owh ya..there's been crisis around me about divorce and talak2 thingy..
so i guess when ustazah tought me just now..
i think that it'll be easier for me to understand bout it..
people think that i'm happy,fun and mostly like have no problem at all..
but what other people dont know is..
I'M FULL WITH PROBLEMS..(forget bout it la)
hurmm..back to the talak topik..i'm not quiet sure bout how the process and the talak thingy happen..what i know is definitly have to turun naik court.. XP
owh btw..today nothing much happen to me..nothings change..
i'm still a normal human being..+ me know now bout talak..
like i said " tolak-tertolak-ditolak = 'talak' "
cukuplah bout this talak2 stuff..might get confused pasal benda nieyh.. :D
bublybye now..-NANBA-